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.... Letters & Opinion

31st August 2010
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Hardly a day goes without some local magazine or newspaper or television programme reminding us how super our St. Lucian hospitality is. Clichés are clichés but come on – I would bet my last paycheck that the tourists who do visit our beautiful island are not all wrong about us being warm and friendly.
However, as great as our warm and friendly nature affect our visitors in a special way, the manner in which we treat our own (and not the faintest hint of prejudice is intended here), merits a closer look. Sometimes one gets the impression that either we have lost most of our scruples or we just have some sort of deep disdain for our fellow St. Lucians and what it means being St. Lucian. We see and experience it everywhere. Whether it’s cold response given when someone enters the minibus and greets us or people finding all sorts of activities to do during the playing of the national anthem.
But one of the most incredulous of such moments of disrespect has to be the one I witnessed last Saturday. I got to the St. Lucy’s National Shrine in Micoud around 1:30 pm. For those of you who forgot, the funeral of our late Sesenne Descartes was held there last Saturday. Just as I was entering the church, there were about three security guards stationed at the door. I recognized one distinctly since his physical attributes seem a prime reason why his ubiquity keeps me running into him at this event or another.
The church was packed, so he directed me to stand in the corner and not block the entrance. He wasn’t the most polite of ushers one can meet but he was in charge and I respected his call. After pleading with a female usher, I was told that media or not, I could not be seated in the church since the available seats were reserved for “people who called and said they were on their way.” So I stooped in the aisle trying to get some good pics for my editor. Finally, I went outside so I could get a much clearer audio recording from the speaker placed outside the church.
About five minutes later, I saw Blaise Pascal about to make his entrance to the church. I gestured and got his attention. As he was approaching me, the same security guy whom I had shown 100% respect for just moments earlier, would be the only sore point I experienced on a day that we all hoped would be a special one. “Ga vieux salop-la!” he shouted as he pointed to Blaise, whose eyes were by now larger than life itself. Then he said it again, probably to prove to the three women in his company that “he run tings.”

 
 

“Excuse me, but what have I done to you to deserve that?” was Blaise’s response. At that point, the great pretender would attempt to remove himself from the situation with “Not you, uh,” as if the six of us present hadn’t noticed clearly that here again was another perfect example of a Joe Ignoramus making us all look bad. I asked Blaise whether he knew the guy from anywhere. Maybe the Salvation Army charity dinner or the NCF telethon where Blaise, our St. Lucian tenor, would have performed. Blaise said he’d never met the guy before.
I met Blaise for the first time in 2005 when the CDF recruited him to host some voice classes for – get this – free. I had heard about him from my St. Lucia School of Music days years earlier. My voice teacher had told me he was an excellent opera singer. At the workshops at CDF, Blaise told us his story: where a female family member told him in his teens that if he left St. Lucia for overseas, to never return without being successful and making his country proud. He told us that he still credits her for that piece of advice. We also learned that he had lived in Bel Air in California and that whenever the late Luciano Pavarotti couldn’t make it to a music gig, Blaise was the first person Pavarotti would recommend to fill his shoes.
Blaise has returned to St. Lucia on many occasions and I often get to touch bases with him. I’ve seen him at Carnival, and one of his main reasons for this latest trip was to be part of a production where he held rehearsals at the NCC last week. At the recent Inter-Commercial House Competition, he came to mind briefly when I recalled that the winner of the competition was a young man Blaise had told during our voice workshops in 2005 to always believe in yourself.
The other reason he was here was to pay tribute to Sesenne. I wouldn’t go into the struggle he had to face before finally getting the opportunity to sing a poignant and spellbinding “Ave Maria” last Saturday afternoon for someone he told me that has inspired him throughout his successful career. As I snapped some photos he had earlier requested that I email to him, I was praying to high Heaven that that security guy was witnessing a proud St. Lucian paying his respects to another. The irony of the situation was a baffling one for me but I sensed that hurt as Blaise was, he was not going to let one bad experience ruin things for him. And, in a sense, I could not let it ruin mine.
While that security guard’s actions do not necessarily reflect what our tourism brochures claim, I think it is imperative that we do not lose what is really important to us – a pride we wear so conspicuously on our proverbial sleeves. However, St. Lucian to St. Lucian, I am sure you would agree with me that a true St. Lucian is a St. Lucian at heart. And respecting each other should be one of the key scruples that define us.


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